{"id":17768,"date":"2025-06-10T15:03:28","date_gmt":"2025-06-10T15:03:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailywashingtoninsider.com\/index.php\/2025\/06\/10\/teenage-tiktok-stars-murder-leaves-pakistani-women-questioning-whether-any-safe-spaces-exist-online-or-on-the-street\/"},"modified":"2025-06-10T15:03:28","modified_gmt":"2025-06-10T15:03:28","slug":"teenage-tiktok-stars-murder-leaves-pakistani-women-questioning-whether-any-safe-spaces-exist-online-or-on-the-street","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailywashingtoninsider.com\/index.php\/2025\/06\/10\/teenage-tiktok-stars-murder-leaves-pakistani-women-questioning-whether-any-safe-spaces-exist-online-or-on-the-street\/","title":{"rendered":"Teenage TikTok star\u2019s murder leaves Pakistani women questioning whether any safe spaces exist \u2013 online or on the street"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomkghs00pa27o02bnu3dat@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            When Sana Yousaf turned 17, she posted a video of her birthday celebrations to more than a million followers on TikTok.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw500023b6mpvrybomp@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            They saw her cutting a pink and cream cake beneath a matching balloon arch, the June breeze ruffling her long hair as she beamed against the backdrop of the cloud-covered Margalla Hills in Pakistan\u2019s capital, Islamabad.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw500033b6monjyt4zb@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Less than 24 hours later, Sana was dead, a bullet through her chest and graphic images of her dead body going viral on Pakistani social media, outraging women across the country, who fear there are no safe spaces for them anymore \u2013 in reality, or online.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw500063b6mgn5m3z3z@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            As Sana\u2019s family prepared for her funeral, disturbing comments started popping up on her TikTok and Instagram posts, most in Urdu, celebrating her killing. \u201cHappy to see these things happening,\u201d read one. Another stated, \u201cMy heart is happy today, I\u2019m going to turn on music and dance with joy.\u201d    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw500073b6mb0ghbwbf@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Under a picture of Sana wearing traditional Pakistani clothes covering her entire body, a comment said, \u201cencouraging young women to seek attention or expose themselves can have serious negative consequences.\u201d    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw500083b6mxezpuqw0@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            The Digital Rights Foundation (DRF), a women-led nonprofit that promotes online safety, said such rhetoric \u201cdangerously links a woman\u2019s online presence or perceived morality to justifications for violence.\u201d    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw500093b6mau8cpy2a@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            \u201cThis form of digital vigilantism contributes to a broader culture of victim-blaming, where abuse is normalized and accountability is shifted away from the perpetrator,\u201d the DRF said in a report released soon after Sana\u2019s death.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000a3b6mt23c1f50@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Alongside toxic online comments, rage has simmered among women across Pakistan, who are demanding justice for Sana, pointing to a crisis of masculinity in the South Asian nation.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000b3b6mcdfqw6gy@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            And Pakistan is far from alone in seeing heated debates over the prevalence of violence against women.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000c3b6mztiq84l7@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Recent multiple murders in Latin America, including a Mexican influencer who was shot dead while livestreaming, has sparked indignation and highlighted the high rates of femicide across the continent.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000d3b6mlmcbqpbe@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            British miniseries\u201cAdolescence\u201d became a global hit this year with its raw depiction of the damage caused by online misogyny while a recent largescale Australia study found one in three men saying they have committed intimate partner violence at some point in their lives.    <\/p>\n<div data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/image\/instances\/cmbosavfm00053b6mq05dnm5i@published\" class=\"image_expandable portrait image_expandable__hide-placeholder\" data-image-variation=\"image_expandable\" data-name=\"dbb095a6-67d6-40a1-9f8c-9cf1da6f5a4f.JPG\" data-component-name=\"image\" data-observe-resizes=\"\" data-breakpoints=\"{&quot;image_expandable--eq-extra-small&quot;: 115, &quot;image_expandable--eq-small&quot;: 300, &quot;image_expandable--eq-large&quot;: 660}\" data-original-ratio=\"1.523076923076923\" data-original-height=\"1386\" data-original-width=\"910\" data-url=\"https:\/\/media.cnn.com\/api\/v1\/images\/stellar\/prod\/dbb095a6-67d6-40a1-9f8c-9cf1da6f5a4f.JPG?c=original\" data-editable=\"settings\">\n<div class=\"image_expandable__container \" data-image-variation=\"image_expandable\" data-breakpoints=\"{&quot;image_expandable--eq-extra-small&quot;: 115, &quot;image_expandable--eq-small&quot;: 300, &quot;image_expandable--show-credits&quot;: 525}\">           <\/div>\n<div class=\"image_expandable__metadata\">\n<div class=\"image_expandable__caption attribution\">    <span data-editable=\"metaCaption\" class=\"inline-placeholder\">The last image Sana uploaded on her socials, celebrating her 17th birthday.<\/span>  <\/div><figcaption class=\"image_expandable__credit\">sanayousaf22\/Instagram<\/figcaption><\/div>\n<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/image\/instances\/cmbot4p1k00073b6mg8cakzbd@published\" class=\"image_expandable portrait image_expandable__hide-placeholder\" data-image-variation=\"image_expandable\" data-name=\"ba893b8d-bee7-4abc-9e0f-4ff2078156c4.JPG\" data-component-name=\"image\" data-observe-resizes=\"\" data-breakpoints=\"{&quot;image_expandable--eq-extra-small&quot;: 115, &quot;image_expandable--eq-small&quot;: 300, &quot;image_expandable--eq-large&quot;: 660}\" data-original-ratio=\"1.5463182897862233\" data-original-height=\"1302\" data-original-width=\"842\" data-url=\"https:\/\/media.cnn.com\/api\/v1\/images\/stellar\/prod\/ba893b8d-bee7-4abc-9e0f-4ff2078156c4.JPG?c=original\" data-editable=\"settings\">\n<div class=\"image_expandable__container \" data-image-variation=\"image_expandable\" data-breakpoints=\"{&quot;image_expandable--eq-extra-small&quot;: 115, &quot;image_expandable--eq-small&quot;: 300, &quot;image_expandable--show-credits&quot;: 525}\">           <\/div>\n<div class=\"image_expandable__metadata\">\n<div class=\"image_expandable__caption attribution\">    <span data-editable=\"metaCaption\" class=\"inline-placeholder\">Sana posted regularly on her social media accounts where her content would be familiar to any teenager online.<\/span>  <\/div><figcaption class=\"image_expandable__credit\">sanayousaf22\/Instagram<\/figcaption><\/div>\n<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h2 class=\"subheader inline-placeholder subheader vossi-subheader vossi-subheader--size-h2\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/subheader\/instances\/cmbomp4a500173b6m2y3l4ouo@published\" data-component-name=\"subheader\" id=\"few-safe-spaces-online\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">        Few safe spaces online<\/h2>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000f3b6mlatewp04@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Sana\u2019s TikTok content would be familiar to any teenager online. Her recent shorts included showing off her fashionwear, singing songs while driving, and filming a blowdry at the salon.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000g3b6mxo8o8ciy@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            But for prominent women\u2019s rights campaigners, Sana\u2019s death was the ultimate outcome of unrestricted online abuse of women in a patriarchal country.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000h3b6mkr2x6klm@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Amber Rahim Shamsi, a prominent journalist and Pakistan editor of a news digital platform, Nukta, says she was relentlessly harassed online in 2020 for a variety of issues, including her views on women\u2019s rights.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000j3b6m70tn500s@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Shamsi agrees that there is a crisis in masculinity, \u201cespecially in how it plays out in our digital spaces.\u201d And that it needs to be talked about \u201cnot just for women\u2019s sake, but for men\u2019s, too.\u201d    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000k3b6m0s2gm7cp@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            According to Shamsi, \u201csocial media has amplified women\u2019s voices \u2013 especially those of young women \u2013 who are increasingly educated, politically aware, and unafraid to own their choices. That visibility, that confidence, is unsettling for some men who have grown up believing their authority, their control, is a given.\u201d    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000l3b6m0rfk9ldp@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            \u201cIt\u2019s an identity crisis,\u201d says Shamsi. \u201cA subset of men is reacting with anxiety and aggression to this shift in gender dynamic as though the solution is to shrink women\u2019s spaces, rather than question why so many boys are being raised to feel threatened by equality.\u201d    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000m3b6m4gt85az5@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            The DRF\u2019s report stated that since 2017 its helpline \u201chas documented over 20,000 cases of technology-facilitated gender-based violence and online threats, numbers that have only grown.\u201d    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000n3b6mwgnjj613@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Kanwal Ahmed, a Pakistani social entrepreneur and storyteller, runs Soul Sister Pakistan, a Facebook group created in 2013 with over 300,000 followers. For years, it\u2019s operated as a popular safe digital space for Pakistani women online, but Ahmed says the criticism of her page has been unrelenting.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000o3b6mnfp4hpgx@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            \u201cWe have been called a man-hating, trauma-bonding club where all women do is gossip,\u201d said Ahmed, who works with volunteers to help women in need who post on the page.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000p3b6m6j2vcbpt@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Sana is not alone when it comes to unwanted online attention that\u2019s moved to real life.  Ahmed recalled a case in 2019 of a young woman who had been stalked by a man after her friend leaked her number online.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000q3b6mpyc3zw20@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            \u201cThe only difference between her and Sana is that she wasn\u2019t killed, the stalker turned up at her door,\u201d said Ahmed. \u201cYou don\u2019t have to be an influencer to face this, it can happen to anyone.\u201d    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000s3b6mhz9kb96z@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            There\u2019s a perception in Pakistan that \u201cviolence that takes place online is not \u2018real\u2019 and is therefore less harmful,\u201d Tariq said. But she added that what are sometimes seen as \u201cmerely virtual\u201d online threats can often turn to physical violence.    <\/p>\n<h2 class=\"subheader inline-placeholder subheader vossi-subheader vossi-subheader--size-h2\" data-editable=\"text\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/subheader\/instances\/cmbompfz7001a3b6ml49hm3ho@published\" data-component-name=\"subheader\" id=\"putting-the-focus-on-men\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">        Putting the focus on men<\/h2>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000u3b6mlt859l01@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Much praise has been heaped on Pakistani authorities for their sensitive and swift handling of Sana\u2019s murder, but some commentators say that\u2019s missing the point.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000v3b6mt5ik2d00@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Usama Khilji, the director of Bolo Bhi, a digital rights advocacy group Bolo Bhi, says Pakistan should be talking about educating boys about online harassment.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000w3b6mbe8db7et@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            \u201cMen in leadership positions need to be talking about these issues,\u201d according to Khilji.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000x3b6mvo4q2oxf@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Khilji said hate speech against women in Pakistan is still \u201cnot a priority, and he\u2019s called on the government to \u201cshow leadership in combatting online crimes against women.\u201d    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000y3b6mlf3owf1k@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Sana\u2019s murder comes less than two weeks after a landmark ruling by the country\u2019s Supreme Court upheld the death penalty for Zahir Jaffer, who murdered Noor Mukkadam, the daughter of a distinguished diplomat, in 2021.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw5000z3b6mmivp7wfk@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            The brutal beheading horrified the country and renewed calls for better protection for victims of gender-based violence.    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbomlqw500103b6me5pmr85k@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            Noor\u2019s father, Shaukat Mukadam, has been lauded for his relentless campaign for justice for his daughter. After the ruling, Noor\u2019s family issued a statement saying the verdict was a \u201cpowerful reminder that women\u2019s lives matter.\u201d    <\/p>\n<p class=\"paragraph inline-placeholder vossi-paragraph\" data-uri=\"cms.cnn.com\/_components\/paragraph\/instances\/cmbouinsm00013b6mgtat8ciw@published\" data-editable=\"text\" data-component-name=\"paragraph\" data-article-gutter=\"true\">            \u201cEvery moment with her was unforgettable,\u201d he said.    <\/p>\n<\/p>\n<div>This post appeared first on cnn.com<\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When Sana Yousaf turned 17, she posted a video of her birthday celebrations to more&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17769,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17768","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-world"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailywashingtoninsider.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17768","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailywashingtoninsider.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailywashingtoninsider.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailywashingtoninsider.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailywashingtoninsider.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17768"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dailywashingtoninsider.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17768\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailywashingtoninsider.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17769"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailywashingtoninsider.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17768"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailywashingtoninsider.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17768"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailywashingtoninsider.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17768"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}