Gawon Bae\/CNN<\/figcaption><\/div>\n<\/p>\n<\/div>\n That heartache was soon followed by another: the death of the second-eldest brother. He died of shock and pain, in deep sorrow from the kidnap of his brother, according to the sisters. <\/p>\n
\u201cThe grief was huge. Our parents lost two sons\u2026 imagine how heartbreaking that would be,\u201d Min Jeong-ja said. <\/p>\n
For their father, the pain of losing two sons was overwhelming. He developed a panic disorder, she said, and would struggle to work for the rest of his life. <\/p>\n
\u201cHe couldn\u2019t go outside; he stayed home all the time. And because he was hugely shocked, he struggled going through day-to-day life. So, our mom went out (to work) and suffered a lot,\u201d Min Young-jae said. <\/p>\n
The mother jumped into earning a living for the remaining five children and her husband. Still, every morning she prayed for Min Young-sun, filling a bowl with pure water as part of a Korean folk ritual and leaving the first scoop of the family\u2019s rice serving that day in a bowl for a son whom she believed would return one day. <\/p>\n
\u201cShe couldn\u2019t move house; in case the brother cannot find his way back home. She wouldn\u2019t let us change anything of the house, not even the doors. That\u2019s how she waited for him\u2026 We waited for so long, and time just passed,\u201d Min Jeong-ja said. <\/p>\n
Min Jeong-ja was 8 years old when the war started, but witnessed brutality that would overwhelm many adults. <\/p>\n
\u201cSo many kids died. When I went out to the river to wash clothes, I occasionally saw bodies of children floating,\u201d she recalled. <\/p>\n
She remembers witnessing North Korean soldiers lining up people in a barley field, and shooting at them with submachine guns. \u201cThen one by one, they fell on the barley field.\u201d <\/p>\n
\u201cI saw too much. At one point \u2013 I didn\u2019t even know if the soldier was a South Korean or North Korean \u2013 but I saw beheaded remains.\u201d <\/p>\n
The Min family is one of many torn apart by the war. More than 134,000 people are still waiting to hear from their loved ones believed to be in North Korea, which is now one of the world\u2019s most reclusive states, with travel between the two countries nigh-on impossible. <\/p>\n
Years after the Korean War, the two Koreas discussed organizing reunions for the separated families that have been identified from both sides through the Red Cross and both governments. <\/p>\n
The first reunion happened in 1985, more than 30 years after the ceasefire agreement was signed, and the annual reunions kicked off in 2000, when many first-hand war victims were still alive, but occasionally halted when tensions escalated on the peninsula. <\/p>\n
Once the two governments agree on a reunion date, one of the two Koreas selects families, prioritizing the elderly and immediate relatives, then shares the list with the other, which would cross check the family on its side to confirm the list of around 100 members. <\/p>\n
The selected families would meet at an office specifically built for reunions at the Mount Kumgang resort in North Korea. <\/p>\n
The Min siblings applied to the Red Cross at least five times and listed themselves under the South Korean government as a separated family. But there was never any word on their brother\u2019s whereabouts from the other side. <\/p>\n
As 75 years passed, the siblings grew up, got married, and formed their own families \u2013 but questions about their stolen brother linger. <\/p>\n
Even worse, the annual reunions of separated families have been halted since 2018, following failed summit between US President Donald Trump and North Korea\u2019s leader Kim Jong Un in Hanoi, while first-hand victims of the war age and pass away. <\/p>\n
The Kumgang resort was dismantled by the North in 2022, also amid strained tensions. <\/p>\n
But the siblings, following their parents\u2019 wishes, still hope to connect with Min Young-sun, who would now be 94 years old. <\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s been a long time since we were separated, but I would be so grateful if you\u2019re alive. And if you\u2019re not, I still would love to meet your children. I want to share the love of family, remembering the happy days of the past\u2026 I love you, thank you.\u201d <\/p>\n
She and the siblings remember the kidnapped brother by singing his favorite song, \u201cThinking of My Brother,\u201d a children\u2019s song about a brother that never returned. <\/p>\n
\u201cMy brother, you said you would come back from Seoul with silk shoes,\u201d Min Young-jae sang, while her sister wiped away tears. <\/p>\n<\/p>\n
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